Have you ever thought or said, ‘Stop treating me like a minor?’ I hear this lament from many of my clients. ‘My husband/wife treats me like a minor. He/she questions everything I do.’ ‘My boss talks to me like he is my parent.’ ‘My parents desire to know everything – they are on me about something constantly.’ No affair what your age, from the ‘terrible two’s to the stressful forties’ (often referred to as a mid-lifetime crises) everyone desires to be treated as competent and capable, recognized for their strengths and excellent intentions, rather than shortcomings, foibles and mistakes. Everyone values his/her thoughts, feelings and needs to be respected and included in the choice making action for the issues that directly involve and impact them. In small, everyone values autonomy and wants to express him/herself and be in command of his/her lifetime.
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